When making decisions, ask myself “who do I want to become?”
Life is about growing, learning, self-evolving, as well as loving and experiencing joy.
So it’s better to ask myself “who” I want to become — rather than “what” I think I’m supposed to do or have — and make any important decisions from there.
Always have something to look forward to. I hope you achieve your dreams and go on that vacation and make that money and marry that amazing lover — but once you do, find something else to look forward to after that. Always keep growing. It’s a secret to health and happiness. If you feel bored,…
I keep a private journal that’s normally just for me. It helps me work through my feelings, sort out my thoughts, brainstorm new ideas, just vent, and more. But for some reason, today I felt like sharing a snippet of what I wrote. These are values I want to live by. What I believe. The…
Think about something you want — a relationship, a career path, a personal goal. Does it scare you? Is it something YOU honestly want (verses “should” want or others want for you)? This is what I believe. A quick “formula” to test if you should pursue something or not: Option 1: This scares me and it’s not…
I don’t want to conquer the world; I want to conquer my own fears and self-doubts. I don’t care about a lot of money; I want a lot of love. It takes a lot of courage and strength to be weak and vulnerable. It’s okay to make a lot of mistakes and fail spectacularly if…
Growth is about having no more problems. It’s about having newer, better, and higher quality problems. (Look how far you’ve come.)
Anything worth doing, is worth doing badly. No one’s born an expert, master, or with great talent. Everybody starts as a n00b. But if it’s worth doing well someday — start today, f*ck it up, do it badly… Just start. Just try. It’s okay to fail. Fail miserably. Fail spectacularly. Mess it up, screw it…